1. Social settings
make me uncomfortable. |
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2. I sometimes feel
guilty after masturbating. |
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3. I would describe
myself as a hopeless romantic. |
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4. I have never cheated on a romantic partner. |
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5. My sexual urges are sometimes hard to control. |
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6. I have been described as obsessive by a romantic partner. |
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7. I believe I was emotionally neglected as a child. |
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8. I have viewed pornography on the internet in the past month. |
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9. I was physically abused as a child. |
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10. Sex should occur only between two people married to each other. |
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11. I have masturbated seven times or more in the past week. |
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12. I sometimes find physical pain to be sexually pleasurable. |
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13. Romantic partners have described me as "too possessive". |
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14. I have fantasized about being raped. |
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15. I was raised in a very strict household. |
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16. I believe I am addicted to sex. |
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17. I tend to be a jealous person. |
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18. I have engaged in sexual activities with an animal. |
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19. I enjoy being sexually stimulated. |
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20. I have masturbated more than once in the past year. |
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21. The thought of masturbating in a public place excites me. |
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22. I am ashamed of past sexual behaviors. |
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23. Pornography has had a destructive effect on my life. |
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24. I have never been accused of stalking. |
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25. I have spent more than four hours in online chat rooms in the past week. |
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26. I have seen a young child naked. |
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27. I have never had an orgasm with a partner. |
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28. My parents were verbally abusive to me. |
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29. I have fantasized about raping someone. |
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30. Exposing my genitalia to strangers excites me. |
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31. I enjoy watching others perform sexual acts. |
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32. I have been to a strip club three times or more in the past year. |
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33. I fantasize about sex. |
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34. My sexual and/or romantic behavior has caused problems at work. |
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35. I believe strongly in "love-at-first-sight". |
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36. I have had to deal with some terrible things in my life. |
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37. Sexually, I think there is something wrong with me. |
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38. I have had problems with alcohol, drugs or gambling. |
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39. There are times when having sex with someone I care about feels disgusting to me. |
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40. It is possible to love someone that you've never met. |
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41. I have a secret sexual life that few people, if any, know about. |
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42. I am a very romantic person. |
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43. I have made romantic/sexual passes at people that I shouldn't have. |
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44. I have had sex with someone on the same day that I met them. |
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45. I have had sexual thoughts involving children. |
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46. I have accepted money for performing sexual acts. |
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47. It is wrong to have sex on a first date. |
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48. Pictures of sexually graphic material excite me. |
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49. Meeting new friends is easy for me. |
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50. I have juggled three or more romantic relationships at the same time. |
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51. Masturbating is more satisfying to me than sex. |
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52. I have intentionally harmed an animal. |
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53. Humiliation can be sexually stimulating for me. |
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54. I am a recovering sexual addict. |
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55. I have masturbated an animal out of curiosity. |
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56. I like my sexual partner to be domineering. |
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57. I have paid someone to perform sexual acts on or around me. |
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58. I have watched others undress without their permission. |
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59. I have used threats or coercion to keep others from talking about something I have done. |
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60. I have never intentionally stimulated my sexual organs. |
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61. One or both of my parents have had sexual problems. |
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62. I have never touched a family member in a sexual way. |
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63. I have had sex with someone without their permission. |
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64. I have sought counseling for emotional or behavioral problems. |
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65. I have hid in concealed places to see someone undress. |
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66. I have contracted a sexually transmitted disease. |
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67. I have been threatened with, or have had a restraining order filed against me. |
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68. I have difficulty trusting my romantic partners. |
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69. My family has suffered because of my sexual behaviors. |
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70. Masturbating is something I look forward to when I'm stressed. |
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71. I have had unprotected sex with more than one person in the past five years. |
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72. I have had suicidal thoughts due to my sexual behavior. |
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73. Using alcohol and/or drugs enhances my sexual experiences. |
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74. I have been involved in relationships that my partner or I had wanted to keep secret. |
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75. I have participated in sexual acts that are illegal. |
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76. I need help controlling my sexual behaviors. |
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77. People sometimes misinterpret my friendly romantic gestures. |
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78. I have made a conscious effort to control my sexual activity in the past. |
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79. Friends have shown concern over my sexual behavior. |
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80. Very few people truly understand me. |
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81. Wearing clothes of the opposite sex arouses me. |
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82. I have followed people I'm attracted to without their knowledge. |
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83. I have had sexual thoughts about children I know. |
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84. I avoid movies/television shows with nudity in them. |
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85. Past sexual/romantic behaviors have caused problems at work/school. |
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86. I have spent $50 or more on phone sex lines over the past year. |
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87. Death is sexually arousing to me. |
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88. I have always been sexually healthy. |
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89. I have injured myself while masturbating. |
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90. The consequences of my past sexual behavior has left me ashamed. |
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91. I have never been arrested. |
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92. My sexual behaviors have occasionally led to violence. |
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93. I have waited in hiding for over an hour to see someone naked. |
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94. My life would be devastated if my sexual secrets were ever discovered. |
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95. I enjoy watching animals engaged in sexual activity. |
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96. I have never been attracted to someone younger than myself. |
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97. Intercourse is more satisfying to me than masturbation. |
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98. I have at least one pornographic magazine/movie in my home. |
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99. I have had unprotected sex with someone I barely knew. |
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100. "Falling in love" seems to happen easily for me. |
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101. I am/have been a member of a sexually-oriented Internet site. |
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102. Sometimes, I feel like I was born the wrong sex. |
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103. I have sought professional help for my sexual behavior. |
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104. I continue to engage in illegal sexual activity. |
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105. I have masturbated while driving a moving vehicle. |
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106. Others have voiced concern about my sexual behavior. |
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107. I was raised in a strictly religious environment. |
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108. Performing sexual acts in dangerous settings excites me. |
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109. Violence sometimes enhances my sexual experiences. |
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110. Certain inanimate objects (shoes, panties, money, etc.) arouse me. |
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111. I have listened to others engaged in sexual acts without their knowledge. |
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112. There are times when a woman says no to sex, when she really means yes. |
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113. I have secretly gathered information on someone I'm attracted to. |
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114. I have unintentionally frightened others by my romantic gestures. |
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115. To be considered rape, penile penetration must be involved. |
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116. I have/have had a sexually transmitted disease. |
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117. I have been directly involved in at least two abortions. |
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118. I have used borrowed/stolen objects to enhance masturbation (including panties, bras, etc). |
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119. I have used surveillance/video equipment to monitor the sexual behavior of others. |
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120. I have tried to abstain from certain sexual behaviors, but failed. |
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121. I have had strong romantic feelings for people I have never met. |
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122. It feels good to intentionally inflict pain on myself or my partner. |
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123. Occasionally, I enjoy blindfolding/tying up my sexual partners. |
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124. I have been involved in at least one unplanned pregnancy. |
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125. As long as all parties consent, all sexual behavior is acceptable. |
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126. I have close friends that I interact with on a daily basis. |
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127. I have secretly sought personal information on someone I'm attracted to. |
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128. I have had sex with more than two people in the past six months. |
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129. Sex seems to be more important to me than it does to my partners. |
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130. I have never had a fantasy involving rape. |
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131. I have intentionally exposed my genitalia without the viewer's consent. |
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132. I have intentionally limited my oxygen intake to intensify an orgasm. |
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133. My social relationships have suffered because of my sexual behavior. |
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134. Feelings are more important than age in a romantic relationship. |
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135. I have photographed/filmed my own body for the sexual gratification of others. |
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136. I have gone to public places looking for sex (e.g. bathrooms, parks). |
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137. I enjoy inflicting physical pain while performing sexual acts. |
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138. I have had sexual contact with a child under the age of thirteen. |
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139. I have had no sexual problems in the past two years. |
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140. I have never cheated on a romantic partner. |
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141. I have attended a twelve-step program to try and understand my sexual behavior. |
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142. It is difficult for me to achieve orgasm with a partner. |
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143. I have been with a sexual partner who was at least ten years older or younger than me. |
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144. I have written intimate letters to people I didn't know very well. |
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145. I feel that men are superior to women. |
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146. At least once, I should have stopped my sexual advances, but didn't. |
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147. I have relied upon alcohol/drugs to lower my sexual partner's inhibitions. |
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148. I always fulfill my sexual partner's needs before my own. |
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149. Sometimes, I feel disgust when my romantic partner tries to touch me. |
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150. Sexual issues have led to my becoming depressed on more than one occasion. |
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151. Sometimes, I go out looking to find new sexual partners. |
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152. I have participated in sexual activity that I am ashamed of. |
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153. I have participated in sexual behavior at work that, if caught, would have gotten me into serious trouble. |
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154. It is important to me to make members of the opposite sex others feel special. |
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155. I have had two or more sexual partners in the same day. |
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156. I am in a helping profession with direct human contact (e.g. counseling, clergy, teaching). |
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157. I have considered self-mutilation as a way of controlling my sexual behaviors. |
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158. I have intentionally worn sexually revealing clothes around strangers. |
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159. I have had an affair with a married person in the past two years. |
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160. Sometimes, I reward myself by engaging in sexual activity. |
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161. My romantic partners tend to fall deeply in love with me. |
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162. I believe I have an addictive personality. |
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163. I need to be in control over my partner's sexual activity. |
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164. Sexual behavior has sometimes led me to thoughts of suicide. |
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165. I have never felt, or no longer feel, close to my family. |
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166. I believe that I have a "soul mate". |
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167. I am usually in online chat rooms more than twice a week. |
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168. I have masturbated an animal to make them feel good. |
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169. There have been times that I have regretted having sexual relations with someone. |
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170. I have disguised myself to gain access to places I shouldn't have been. |
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171. I have purchased surveillance equipment to secretly monitor others. |
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172. I have told at least two people in my life that they were my "soul mate". |
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173. I have had several sexually transmitted diseases in my life. |
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174. I cannot stand small-talk in social settings. Conversations should be meaningful. |
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175. Though I love my partner and don't want to lose them, I continue to have affairs. |
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176. My life would be much happier if I could somehow remove my sexual desire. |
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177. In the past year, I have masturbated more than once on the same day. |
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You have now completed the Sexual Screening Inventory©. Please select "Send to Coach " to continue.
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