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 Post subject: lesson 21
PostPosted: Fri Dec 08, 2017 1:28 pm 

Joined: Mon Jul 17, 2017 3:09 pm
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A, The goals I have attempted in my life and failed, Why did I fail?
I could not be faithful to any of my previous partners, I wanted to but just was not strong enough. I needed to feel wanted and was addicted to the newness and thrill of having sexual encounters with other women. Even at that time I hated it as well as loving it.

B, What large goals have I attempted in my life and succeeded?
At the age of 40 after ruining quite a few good relationships I decided to go off to do a University Degree for 3 years, I got it. How was I able to succeed? The answer to that was the fear of failure after family and friends
who knew me and thought I would never be disciplined enough because of my past would certainly fail. That drove me on and the love of the subject I was always drawn to, Ancient History.

C, I want to have more confidence in myself, to be truthful, not only to others but to myself. To have the maturity
to realise what is harmful to others and myself by my actions. To also have completed my recovery by next summer, 2019.

 Post subject: Re: lesson 21
PostPosted: Sat Dec 09, 2017 8:29 am 
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Please hit the reply not the new topic key as this keeps your posts in one thread
this helps you to refer back as you progress and allows coaches and mentors to follow your journey should there ever be a need to step in to provide some help or guidance

Remember recovery is more than abstinence
Every transition begins with an ending
Do not confuse happiness with seeking pleasure
stay healthy keep safe
Coach Kenzo

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