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 Post subject: MY VISION
PostPosted: Mon Sep 23, 2019 7:02 am 
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FAMILY IS LIFE
My vision for the rest of my days.
I am committing to devoting the rest of my life to my wife and my family. To my wife who I love completely and have loved since we first became partners and to whom I owe so much, I commit to become a better person, to become a person she will trust and believe in once again. I commit to making our relationship one that is happy, loving and stress-free. I commit to my children and grandchildren to always be available for them, to always help them in any way I can and to always show them how much I love them. I also commit to treat my friends with care, loyalty and respect.
I am committing to controlling my life and being happy and at peace with myself and the way I live. I want to have respect for myself, I want to enjoy my life with my friends and family by being honest with myself and being totally free of any secrets in my being. I want to fulfil my potential in being creative without anything holding me back or disrupting my thoughts or my progress. I don't want my addiction or impulsive behaviour to waste anymore of my time and energy. I want to be proud of myself, I want to like who I am, I want to feel free and I want to feel that I have integrity that I am truthful always and that I can do anything I put my mind to.
My vision is to do these things and leave a legacy of someone who cared for and loved his family and friends and in the end was a decent honest and trustworthy person.


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 Post subject: Re: MY VISION
PostPosted: Wed Sep 25, 2019 5:20 am 
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Hi Clyne
Please hit the reply not the new topic key when posting
this keeps your posts in one thread
thus making it easier for you to refer back when you feel that need, and for sure you will at some point feel that need

Your vision
Well it is very narrow in scope
Family is extremely important but life is so much more
why not read coach Mel's how to , found in this forum and then expand your vision
believe me the more pillars supporting your recovery the better

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Remember recovery is more than abstinence
Every transition begins with an ending
Do not confuse happiness with seeking pleasure
stay healthy keep safe
Coach Kenzo


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 Post subject: Re: MY VISION
PostPosted: Mon Sep 30, 2019 7:04 am 
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My reasons for wanting to change my fix my addictions and get a healthy new life.
I don’t want the things I do to ever come between me and my wife again.
I am tired of seeing my wife hurt by what I do.
I want to stop the sickening remorse I feel every time I have to deal with what I have done.
I want to live without having secrets dragging me down
I want to feel that the trust I know people have in me is deserved and not misplaced.
I want to have one true me, not a dark side that I always need to be covering for.
I want to be mentally healthy.
I want to believe in my self.
I want to reach my potential without being sabotaged by my addiction.
I want to be in completely in control of myself and my actions.
I don’t want my addictive behaviour to damage my relationships with my loved ones or my friends.
I want to trust myself completely.
I want my wife to trust me completely.
I want to be free of the compulsive behaviour that make me feel fake, and undeserving of the love and care others have for me.
I want to feel genuine and deserveing of that faith and love and respect.
I want to be the person I think I am not the person who constantly gets in the way of my life being fulfilling and decent and normal.


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 Post subject: Re: MY VISION
PostPosted: Mon Sep 30, 2019 7:36 am 
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To be a trustworthy partner to my wife Lora
to be a loving partner to Lora
to always be honest with Lora
to be supportive of Lora always
to be loved completely by Lora
to be respectful of Lora always
to help Lora be happy
to be intimate with Lora
to strengthen my relationship with Lora
to strengthen our friendship
to allow Lora confident and comfortable with me
to strengthen my relationship with my son Jack
to reach out to my son Simon
liv with integrity
live with love and compassion
live with understanding
honesty
take care of my health properly
spend quality time with my grandchildren Tildy and Jordie
make more effort with my friends
be creative
make contact with my sister Lynn
spend time with my brother Doug
pursue my music more actively
finished unfinished jobs at home
have control of my actions
trustworthy
respectable
respectful of others
communicate my feelings better and honestly
be happy and content
establish my legacy
be considerate
feel in control of my destiny
take an interest in others, friends and their families
be a good example to my family
be less selfish
be less self indulgent
be known as truthful
feel accomplished
be open minded to the beliefs and values of others
self discipline
take care of myself
take care of Lora
take care of my family
take care of our home and possessions
plan for our future financially
learn new skills
help others be creative musically
keep learning


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 Post subject: Re: MY VISION
PostPosted: Tue Oct 01, 2019 5:26 am 
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Kenzo wrote:
Hi Clyne
Please hit the reply not the new topic key when posting
this keeps your posts in one thread
thus making it easier for you to refer back when you feel that need, and for sure you will at some point feel that need

Your vision
Well it is very narrow in scope
Family is extremely important but life is so much more
why not read coach Mel's how to , found in this forum and then expand your vision
believe me the more pillars supporting your recovery the better


Tank you for your advice and comments Kenzo, you gave me something to think about regarding my vision. Also I have added to my vision and joined it with my exercise replies. Thanks for the tip.


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 Post subject: Re: MY VISION
PostPosted: Wed Nov 06, 2019 9:54 am 
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Hi Clyne
it has been a while :pe:
I do hope that you have not given up on yourself

recovery needs constant commitment and effort
what do you have to lose?
You do have a choice choose wisely

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Remember recovery is more than abstinence
Every transition begins with an ending
Do not confuse happiness with seeking pleasure
stay healthy keep safe
Coach Kenzo


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