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 Post subject: Time_to_change
PostPosted: Sat Jan 18, 2020 11:00 am 

Joined: Sat Jan 11, 2020 12:37 pm
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I want to feel a reality as it is. Not to flee away, not to afraid of, but to live it all without any exceptence. I want to make my family strong, to raise my children to be self-confidence and with desire to make the world better. I am going to learn how to love my wife and how to build deep connection with her. I am going to stop dreaming and start doing. First of all to start developing my own business (my dream from a childhood). I am ready to feel life as it is, to feel pain, to feel failure, to learn and to win. To become a master of my life and my destiny.

 Post subject: Re: Time_to_change
PostPosted: Sat Jan 18, 2020 11:05 am 

Joined: Sat Jan 11, 2020 12:37 pm
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I really didn't think that so many things is important to me. It is difficult to imagine that so many things I want to improve. When you live in your dreams it seems like everything is ok and you are a superman with lots of super power. It is not easy to admit that you are not a superman and that you have a lot of things to fix. I couldn't say that it empowers me, but it really force you to face with yourself without any make-up.
This is a list of my values:
• Physical contact with myself, other people and nature
• To face any problem with broad chest
• Family
• Raise children to be self-confident, be thankful for everything they have, support each other and never stop improving
• Reach deep connections with people
• Learn how to communicate well
• Learn to love women
• Practical mindset
• Visualisation of the future
• Make reality from ideas and thoughts
• Healthy lifestyle
• Learn things to do them right that is important to me (dance, martial arts, sports)
• Create a basement for financial independence
• Constantly learning
• Stoic approach to life
• Freedom
• Become an entrepreneur
• Business approach to different aspects of life
• Emotional maturity
• Plan and arrange things to reach my goals and to be satisfied on each lived day
• To become a real father (as ancient heroes)
• Positive approach
• Mindfulness
• Deep understanding of my feelings, thoughts and urges
• Happiness
• Stay focused on what I am doing
• Spend time on what really matters
• Being dependable
• Taking care of myself
• Leave place for adventure in my life
• Praise competition
• Passionate about life
• Developing patience
• Achievement
• Audacity
• Bravery
• Cleverness
• Character
• Competition
• Courage
• Dignity
• Enterprising
• Flexibility
• Gratitude
• Individuality
• Initiative
• Swift and clever response
• Leadership
• Liberty
• Making a difference
• Moderation
• Optimism
• Perseverance
• Persistence
• Persuasiveness
• Power
• Pragmatism
• Prosperity
• Prudence
• Realism
• Self-respect
• Rigor
• Sagacity
• Satisfaction
• Security
• Self-care
• Self-esteem
• Self-reliance
• Significance
• Simplicity
• Sincerity
• Spirit
• Stability
• Stealth
• Strength
• Structure
• Success
• Systemization
• Temperance
• Thankfulness
• Thoughtfulness
• Thrift
• Tidiness
• Timeliness
• Unity
• Verve
• Vision
• Vitality
• Watchfulness
• Wealth
• Wisdom
• Wittiness

 Post subject: Re: Time_to_change
PostPosted: Tue Jan 21, 2020 11:55 am 
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Joined: Fri Sep 29, 2017 5:29 am
Posts: 411
Hi 1D and welcome to RN.

If you really do want to improve your life and to recover from your addiction, as you have demonstrated thus far, then you are at a good place to make that wish reality

Commit , fully and completely

Work through the lessons and understand them , if you miss something ask on the help forum , assistance is always on hand, coaches and mentors are likely to drop by occasionally but if not, don't worry as this is generally a good indicator that you are on the right path

The path is long and difficult but it is well proven and you are not alone

We usually suggest completing about 3 lessons a week but spending time every day posting and reading

Get to know your addiction and see yourself with honesty and openness

Remember to work at your own pace and its not a race indeed some consider recovery to be a journey rather than a destination

Your reasons for change are generally solid as they are positive and about you

If you record the lesson you are doing the exercise on in your thread it will be easier for coaches and mentors to review and provide feedback as appropriate. Good luck and i look forward to following your thread.


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