Recovery Nation

Personal Development Forum
It is currently Fri Dec 13, 2019 5:51 am

All times are UTC - 5 hours




Post new topic Reply to topic  [ 31 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3
Author Message
PostPosted: Tue Sep 19, 2017 8:27 am 
Offline

Joined: Tue Feb 10, 2009 6:20 pm
Posts: 26
Describe the patterns that you suspect can be attributed to a sexualised mind.

The pattern which matches my h the most, is the morally righteous one.

This has been the pattern for the last 25+ years.

I thought all his energy and passion was put into his job, he was a workaholic. He is extremely condemning about other people and seemed to grow very prudish over time.

I never imagined all this was happening under the surface and feel foolish for not even thinking about that. I also feel arrogant because I assumed that if he didn't want me then he wasn't interested at all. When the truth was that he preferred the PC and no-demands made on him from masturbation etc.

C. Of the four areas discussed in this lesson, which have you observed in your partner?

The Sexualised Mind - Not at all, gave the complete opposite impression.

The Objectified Mind - Likewise. Duhh what an idiot I was.

The Need for Immediate Gratification - Yes he displays this attitude. Gets annoyed if he has to queue for anything. Alwas ahs done.

The All or Nothing Perception - This matches my h attitude to life. He makes a mistake and berates himself about it. He used to constantly tell me he was no good for me and worthless. Life is black and white to him. We used to argue about this stand a great deal. I used to say isn't black and white but shades of grey and he used to make me feel degenerate for saying that. He gets angry with himself when he does something wrong. Always has done.


Top
 Profile  
 
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic Reply to topic  [ 31 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3

All times are UTC - 5 hours


Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 2 guests


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  
cron
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group