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Author:  happy [ Tue Jun 25, 2019 7:48 am ]
Post subject:  Complete Recovery..

Healthy Life Started!!

Author:  happy [ Tue Jun 25, 2019 8:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 01:

I want to maintain an energetic rhythm throughout the recovery course by active participation and so I have decided to put more time and efforts during starting phase of lessons. A good thing is that, I don't give attentions to guilt/Shame about my past, those were different situations and I am a good human from core of my heart.

Why I seek permanent change in my life.

I want to spend my energy on my interests and dreams.
I want to gain self respect.
To rule my life and mind.
To feel clean and confident.
To be faithful to my wife.
I see myself as a role model for others.
I want to be physically strong.
I want positive and healthy mind.
Want to generate meaning from other half of my life.
To be more social and interactive.
To work freely on my goals.
I no more enjoy these activities.
To develop my personality in my own way.

Author:  Kenzo [ Tue Jun 25, 2019 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

hello happy and welcome back
5 years ago you wrote
Quote:
Healthy Life Started!!


lets make sure that this time we bring reality to that statement
you know what it takes
you have the roadmap here on RN
you have the support of the community given that you demonstrate that you deserve it

ALL you need to do is do it
for now :pe: :pe: :pe: :pe: :pe: :pe: please prove me wrong

Author:  happy [ Fri Jun 28, 2019 8:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Thanks Coach Kenzo,

Just want to know if it is possible to have personal coaching form you or anyone who is available currently?
I have sent several email for personal coaching but couldn't receive any response. Currently I am in better condition then I used to be 5 years ago but can't afford another relapse in future.

Thanks again!!

Author:  happy [ Fri Jun 28, 2019 5:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 2: Vision

Physical activities provides me sense of confidence and accomplishment, I want to build a life where I maintain fitness, energy and a great body shape throughout my life. I want to see myself as a great communicator also who can express freely and confidently. I like to be an expertise of Public speaking and a man of this own thoughts. For last many years I have been involved in meditation and have developed it as my habit so would like to continue practicing because it provides me in-depth understanding about life. One has to spend significant amount of time at work so I want to construct a career were I can achieve work satisfaction and reputation. Being socially rich has always attached me so will keep myself socially connected, involved and having good friends across the world !!

Author:  Kenzo [ Wed Jul 03, 2019 5:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Hi happy
Quote:
Just want to know if it is possible to have personal coaching form you or anyone who is available currently?

I am a volunteer coach with the only qualification of having been where you are but probably deeper into that shit, and having found RN, recovered
I thus cannot provide private coaching, but will help you if I can
I believe that private coaching is currently not available but will check with the admin side

THE COACH Jon provided this course for free to all that commit to it and believe me it works, there are many proven recovered sex addicts that have passed through this transitional journey and you can to
but only if you choose to
choose wisely and choose now

Author:  happy [ Tue Jul 16, 2019 7:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 3: Values

Being fit mentally and physically.
Being positive in all situations.
Be present in every moment.
Maintaining Hygiene and cleanliness.
Considering self respect while taking decisions.
Developing my personality
Reading books.
Writing our thoughts
Being a public speaker.
Pray to god everyday for positivity.
Become secular.
Be happy and funny.
Involve in volunteer activities.
confidence to talk with different people and situations.
learning each day in my career.
Love my family and friends.
faithful to my wife.
Having clear path of my work life.
Active in social gathering and public events.
Accept practical understanding in my job.
Maintaining everyday routine.
Learning the dressing sense.
Mentally calm composed and fit.
being animal friendly.
Involve in sports.
Participate in group activities.
make fun of myself.
Learning business and management.
Being relevant to market and skillful.
keeping personal and professional things apart.
Gardening.
Financial stability.
Visiting tourist destinations.
Growing healthy child.
Veggie and healthy food.
Strengthening my role as a partner to (add partner’s name here)
Being an inspiration to others
Providing Correct and Quality work
Staying energetic
Honesty
Physical beauty
Developing sustained friendships
Feeling unconditional love
Improving my social interactions
Being a leader
Laugh and Fun.
Be a person who everyone likes.

Author:  happy [ Thu Jul 18, 2019 7:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 4: Prioritizing Values

Being fit mentally and physically.
Be present in every moment.
Pray to god everyday for positivity.
Being a good communicator.
Achieve skill and Satisfaction in my career
Active social life.
Have Laugh and Fun.
Reading books.
Having good dressing sense.
Being positive in all situations.
Maintaining Hygiene and cleanliness.
learning each day in my career.
Be happy and funny.
Developing my personality
Involve in sports.
Involve in volunteer activities.
Writing our thoughts
faithful to my wife.
Considering self respect while taking decisions.
Become secular.
Confidence to talk with different people and situations.
Staying energetic
Love my family and friends.
Having clear path of my work life.
Accept practical understanding in my job.
Maintaining everyday routine.
Mentally calm composed and fit.
being animal friendly.
Participate in group activities.
make fun of myself.
Learning business and management.
keeping personal and professional things apart.
Gardening.
Financial stability.
Visiting tourist destinations.
Growing healthy child.
Veggie and healthy food.
Strengthening my role as a partner to (add partner’s name here)
Being an inspiration to others
Providing Correct and Quality work
Honesty
Physical beauty
Developing sustained friendships
Feeling unconditional love
Improving my social interactions
Being a leader
Be a person who everyone likes.

Author:  happy [ Tue Jul 23, 2019 7:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 5: Top 15 values

Being fit mentally and physically.
Pray to god everyday for positivity.
Improving communication skill.
Achieve skill and Satisfaction in my career
Unconditional love to family.
Active social life.
Be a good speaker.
Improve outlook and body shape.
Have Laugh and Fun.
Reading books.
faithful to my wife.
Being financially stable.
Staying energetic.
Being positive in all situations.
Having good dressing sense.

Author:  happy [ Wed Jul 31, 2019 8:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 6: Proactive action plan 1

Being social:
Take initiative to talk people.
Have genuine smile and happiness while talking.
Listen others.
Greet people with morning/evening wishes.
Answer any question more than yes/no
Involve if there is any casual group activities/discussion going on.
Call friends on important occasions who are at distant.

Have positive vibration in each bonding.
Accept people as they are.
Being secular for different races/gender/believes

Participate in social gathering/events.
Involve in volunteer activities for interested items.

Improve Dressing:
Follow favorite stars on digital platform and observe their dressing.
Notice dressing while watching movie/TV shows.
Subscribe few YouTube videos of being stylish.

Clear mindset before shopping on what I want to purchase.
Have knowledge about good shops/brands and their sale time.
Developing our own style which makes confident.
Keep clothes and shoes as clean and presentable.

Author:  happy [ Wed Oct 16, 2019 7:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 7: Proactive action plan 2

Career:
Brief planning for each workday in advance.
Research and build logical approach on assigned work.
Do Homework before attending any meeting.
Build competency in career skills.

Physical fitness:
Regular exercise.
Maintain verity in exercise to intake the interest.
Oil nourishment for healthy skin.
Eat healthy food and less sugar.
Having light stomach before sleep.
Keep body hydrated.

Mental Fitness:
Read paper books to recharge mind.
Regular bath and cleaning.
Living in present moment.
Recycle/Forget the stressful, frustration/ awkward sentiments.
Think few positive sentence/stories.
Having positive outlook during tough situations.

Communication:
Join club/community to be part of weekly meetings.
Participate in speaking competition.
Increase involvement in office meetings.
Be attentive in group discussion.
Listen carefully.
Read and Think to build understanding on any subject.

Pray to God:
Daily meditation.
Staying away from blind faith.
Understanding the spiritual concept.


Fun:
Share funny/humorous memories with others to enjoy it multiple times.
Laugh genuinely not to just pretend.
Playing games for entertainment.
Connect with people having jolly nature.
Involve into Extracurricular activities.
Celebrate parties/events.

Family:
Keeping regular communication within family.
Give proper attention to everyone while taking.
Help to achieve their goals
Share our feelings and decisions.

Reading books:
Include one book in a week plan.
Frequent visits to library.
Know the favorite and famous writers.


Financial stability:
Understanding my financial need.
Finding some good investment plans.
Building a retirement strategy.
Tracking the expenditure.
Having insurance’s.

Author:  happy [ Mon Nov 04, 2019 8:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 10 : Absolute Honesty

I have shared details about my struggle on sexual fantasy with my partner up to the extent she can understand. Sharing everything can break my relationship and will have to stop the recovery, which make no sense to me. Rather I have decided to be honest going forward and not deceiving her and myself.

List of Sexual behavior:
No Magazine/Pictures/Videos. All are available on internet now.
Browser for porn and then masturbate.
Had few erotic web-chats.
Handful Escorts and massage sessions.
Monthly visit of Strip clubs.
Staring to women everyday and fantasy about them.

Author:  Kenzo [ Mon Nov 04, 2019 2:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Hi Happy
Quote:
Sharing everything can break my relationship and will have to stop the recovery
,
just a thought
your recovery depends only upon you
your relationship status should not be a factor as to whether you achieve recovery or not

the extent of your honesty is of course your decision and yours alone but if gaps exist then who knows what your wife may imagine
your call
choose wisely but do choose

Author:  happy [ Thu Nov 07, 2019 8:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Kenzo wrote:
choose wisely but do choose



I am seeing adverse effects of addiction on my mental health as its destroying my memory and I am unable to concentrate on daily routine.
Its very hard for me to focus on recovery process but somehow I am managing to continue and learning insights of this workshop. Absolute honesty is a critical element for success and I am honest to myself. I be genuine to the world but don't disclose my compulsive behavior.

I respect your opinion and thanks for sharing your thoughts, but at this moment I don't have courage to share everything with my partner. I can't afford more stress in current situation. Thanks Again.

Author:  happy [ Fri Nov 08, 2019 8:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Complete Recovery..

Lesson 11: Assessing Compulsive Behavior

I Fantasize a lot throughout the day.
I used to be obsessed few years ago but now there is no obsession.
Romantic delusion while watching song or movie.
Masturbation 3 times per week for last 18 years.
Pornography thrice in a week.
I have visited strip clubs in last 1 year.

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