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 Post subject: Epiphany
PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2014 2:26 pm 
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I have been struggling so much in the victim role since D-day over 2 months ago, depressed, feelings of no control, you know all the emotions that all partners have been going through but have not been able to kick myself out of this funk. The anger, pain, rage and all of my emotions have been controlling my life.

As I am forcing myself on a daily basis to sustain life, today I had the epiphany!! I don't want to lead his life, I want one of my own. I will take control of my life, my house, my thoughts, my achievements, and I will do it for ME, not him or anyone else. Why? Because I am worth it. I like who I was and felt good about my decisions, my values, my ethics and I slept good at night before all of this hot mess.

So today I must say I AM BACK! I will take control of my life and do what I need to do to be strong and healthy mentally. This is my house, my life, my career and I will not allow anyone else to take that away from me.

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 Post subject: Re: Epiphany
PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 1:40 pm 
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:g: :g: :g: That's an awesome Epiphany! Congratulations!


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 Post subject: Re: Epiphany
PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 7:27 pm 
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:g: And it is feeling good! I achieved more today than I have in total over the last two weeks.

Thanks mrsjones007!

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 Post subject: Re: Epiphany
PostPosted: Wed Nov 26, 2014 3:22 pm 
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Good on you! The only way is up. Just the kind of post I needed to read. Congrats and thanks so much for sharing. :g:

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 Post subject: Re: Epiphany
PostPosted: Fri Dec 19, 2014 5:26 am 
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Thank you for this, unlovedwife. Very inspiring. :g: :g:


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