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PostPosted: Sat Aug 14, 2021 11:06 am 
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If I don t say it now with utter spontaneity
I never will.
Some abuse when young and bad introductions
to sex hiding , secrecy.
I can t say it all at once but
In brief I have worked alot of lessons
and quite well. Porn just keeps being an intermittent
Slip pattern And I hate it and myself after
More exactly I feel despairing.
I trust my self do the lessons correctly and rathet
fear criticims as demoralizing.
I m wondering whether the paid option
Would work better?


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2021 7:02 am 
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Hello Pokito
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fear criticims as demoralizing.


self criticism is fundemental for recovery

the alternative is to deny or even embrace addiction
most comments from mentors and coaches are provided with positive intent this community supports those who deserve support

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In brief I have worked alot of lessons
and quite well.

have you?




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I m wondering whether the paid option
Would work better?


I have contacted coach C hopefully she will respond to you directly
meanwhile why not show true intent be there for yourself what do you have to lose

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Remember recovery is more than abstinence
Every transition begins with an ending
Do not confuse happiness with seeking pleasure
stay healthy keep safe
Coach Kenzo


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2021 2:35 pm 
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Thankyou Kenzo

Actually , yes , re lessons
very serious application in time and exercises.
I m not sure why you question that, ? Perhaps because I have n t put it posted in the recovery theead.
It has helped me and inspired less acting on urges.
.So better is better but any slip hits my morale very hard .
that is where I am. It has been 49 years , it is bound to be tough ...so it s a long haul.
I m here to stay ,just at a very low point after that slip.

So back to the drawing board . I will
make it work .


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 16, 2021 1:24 am 
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I ve thought about the criticisms comment I made and see more exactly that it is n t quite that but really
That I m confronting a regretable and lamentable situation. Criticisms that I really might ageee with them
and as is frustrating in addiction know something and do otherwise. This seems generally true.
I do know the content of the lessons well and the disparity between theorey and practice and effort and achievement is to me daunting.
All the same I will not give up. My target is to master this.
I m a student commited.
Thankyou.


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